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Ryan was born on June 20th, 1974. Two years after me. He was an amazing man! He was living in Las Vegas finishing up his residency in Family Medicine and hoped to make his home again close to us so he could be with his lovely, and very sad little 9 year old daughter.
He died in a car crash on I-5 and I-215 on January 4th at 1:15 pm. (we did not find out until January 5th around 9:15-9:30 am) We don't know many details and hope to find out more soon.
I am so grateful for the time I had to get to know him... particularly the last 6 months. He overcame many, many difficult obstacles and is a huge example to us in our lives on how we should live, act and not to ever give up hope.
I will miss his bright blue eyes, him telling me I am foxy (even when I wasn't), his big bear hugs, his deap laugh, the "shaggy dog" stories that would go on and on, his grateful phone calls when he would call and say he was just thinking of me and appreciated all that we did for him and many, many other great things.
I am so grateful that he was able to spend Christmas break at home and New Years with my parents. Also, I'm glad that we were able to go to dinner with him before he had to head back at Thanksgiving... I am just grateful for him!
I love you Ryan!!! And can't wait until you are able to give me a hug once again. You will be missed dearly!!! And I am so, so sorry for my sweet parents for having to go through the biggest heart ache of their lives... I love you! To my wonderful brothers and sister - I love you - we have to keep going - he would want us to laugh and enjoy life (with a M&M McFlurry and two apple pies in our hands). And, sweet, sweet little Rylee... words can not express how much your daddy loved you - you were the reason he kept going - we love you so much- you have your daddy beautiful blue eyes!!!
Thank-you to all of my great friends and family who have called, stopped by, dropped by food or flowers, prayed for us, or even thought of us. We really do appreciate you. We are blessed!
I was Ryan's roomate in Boys State in High School, and I always looked up to him during that time, He was a great example to me then and I always enjoyed getting together with him when I was in Burley. I'm sorry for your loss, He is a great person, and will be missed. Brian Rencher
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ReplyDeleteI am so sorry to hear of the loss of your brother. I will be thinking of you and praying for you and your family.
Please let me know if I can help in any way.
lora
My mom and I are here and just read your beautiful thoughts about Ryan, thanks for sharing. "We love you all so much and your family is such a great example to all of us" From BJ. Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you!!!
ReplyDeleteOh Melanie, we love you and my heart aches for you and your whole family. I am so sorry. You're all in our prayers.
ReplyDeleteMelanie, what a beautiful tribute to Ryan! Our hearts ache for you. The memories you have are precious, and the pictures. They will be treasures of happier times forever. I'm so glad you have them.
ReplyDeleteMelanie, the last comment was actually from us (Loye and Vaughn) We're at Kristin's and I forgot it would come across as "Kristin."
ReplyDeleteI love him SOOOO much!!!
ReplyDeleteThat was from me, Leslie.
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